kelly ilczyszyn claims her husband richard ilczyszyn , a leading financial broker , could be heard ` groaning ' and ` crying ' by staff on the orange county-bound plane as it prepared to land .
but rather than seeking medical help , the attendants allegedly left the father-of-three in the cubicle and , on landing , letting off all other passengers before calling paramedics .
distraught , ilczyszyn 's wife kelly , who is a southwest flight attendant , said the sequence of events goes against what she would do .